tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post1273638321121121230..comments2023-07-06T10:13:03.445-05:00Comments on Our Someday Family...: It was a day.Linhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17203780431443748216noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-62564880016230837642009-10-31T21:55:26.852-05:002009-10-31T21:55:26.852-05:00I found your blog via ivillage and am totally rela...I found your blog via ivillage and am totally relating to you. My husband I have struggled with infertility for a long time. We still do. We have been blessed with a son, and I hope that you too will be blessed. I know that feeling of longing, and those feelings when it seems that everyone can get pregnant so easily but you. I had the hardest time as a teacher I would see these crappy parents who didn't deserve the beuatiful children they already have and didn't care about, pop yet another one out and complain at how it's just another mouth to feed. I would just sit and cry because i'd give EVERYTHING to be able to just decide I want a baby and poof! it happens. <br />Nobody has to HAVE a baby at any particular point, but it doesn't change that you WANT a baby.<br />All the best to you.Sassyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13834671200392213371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-80980774688773145312009-10-30T09:04:35.384-05:002009-10-30T09:04:35.384-05:00I left you another award on my blog. Love ya, chic...I left you another award on my blog. Love ya, chickie! :)Marlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06867428737055305800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-29489839852809769602009-10-29T15:10:37.998-05:002009-10-29T15:10:37.998-05:00LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR BLOG!! I CAN RELATE TO EVERTH...LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR BLOG!! I CAN RELATE TO EVERTHING!!<br /><br />check this out:<br /><br />www.wishtobeamommy.comUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05529836626223033861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-12440612703555232342009-10-28T18:56:38.749-05:002009-10-28T18:56:38.749-05:00Sorry for your breakdowns! =(
Mom's don't ...Sorry for your breakdowns! =(<br />Mom's don't always say the right thing, mine has messed up a few times also. Saying "would you want to adopt" in the very very early stages of finding out we were IF. I think Hope Springs is right when she said "the burden sometimes falls on us to be understanding of their lack of understanding". And the whole money thing is sooooooooooo frustrating!!!!!!!! ((HUGS)) to you. Good job on eating well and walking. Last night when my hubby said he wasn't going to my apt I ate everything in sight (ice cream, chips) b/c I was so upset and stressed. So I know it's hard right now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-12888322561392071622009-10-28T14:58:09.186-05:002009-10-28T14:58:09.186-05:00Maybe you don't have to have a baby now... may...Maybe you don't have to have a baby now... maybe you should wait a couple years until your odds decrease... much better plan. *rolls eyes* I'm sure she didn't mean it that way, but I think that's the way a lot of mothers react- mine asked me similar questions... and it took her 14 years to conceive (one would think she might get it, but no). And keep going on those last 8 lbs!!!Big Mama Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497834006248871553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-41475363118589662552009-10-28T12:34:55.127-05:002009-10-28T12:34:55.127-05:00Yowsa--what a day! :( It's so frustrating to f...Yowsa--what a day! :( It's so frustrating to feel like you have to justify WHY you wish to have a baby and WHEN you want to have a baby. Folks--even our closest, well-meaning friends and family--don't see infertility the way we do--as a clinical issue, a diagnosis, a disease. I'm sorry that you're having to work through this on top of the rest of it! Sending good thoughts your way...Trinityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12133740026125341736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-35871073467346490142009-10-28T10:46:33.094-05:002009-10-28T10:46:33.094-05:00*hugs* I'm sorry your having a bad day. Some d...*hugs* I'm sorry your having a bad day. Some days everything just piles on. I'm sorry about what your mom said. I know that would bother me too. It's not that you have to have kids right now. You just have that urge to want to get pregnant, to be a mom and your having issues. It's frustrating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-82591424318758131312009-10-28T09:26:41.870-05:002009-10-28T09:26:41.870-05:00Okay, so I know I read about this trial in one of ...Okay, so I know I read about this trial in one of your earlier posts, but I can't seem to remember the specifics, and now I can't find that post. I'm probably scanning right over it. I feel stupid. What kind of trial is it, again?<br /><br />Good luck with the weight loss. If there was ever a reason to lose weight for something, this is it. I need that kind of incentive!!!Marlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06867428737055305800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-23437218919810251152009-10-28T07:34:06.884-05:002009-10-28T07:34:06.884-05:00Ouch. I can't believe your mom said that.
Ma...Ouch. I can't believe your mom said that.<br /><br />Maybe you don't HAVE to have a baby right now. But that doesn't change the fact that you want one, and you should be able to have one just like everybody else.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15379005476557830314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3525951727673893338.post-56029694663200296122009-10-28T03:53:16.192-05:002009-10-28T03:53:16.192-05:00The trouble is, however much our mothers try to un...The trouble is, however much our mothers try to understand, they can only see the world through the filter of a fertile person. My mother is currently dealing with one daughter who's almost certainly just failed her first IVF and another daughter who finds herself unexpectedly pregnant with her fourth child and wondering how she's going to cope. Although I know she's totally supportive of both of us, she knows how to deal with my sister much more easily, because it's a situation much closer to her own life experience. And sometimes she says the wrong thing to me, because she can sympathise with me, but she can never totally empathise.<br /><br />Unfortunately, the burden sometimes falls on us to be understanding of their lack of understanding. They have never been where we are, and can sometimes blurt something out that hurts us without intending to. She probably sees you as still having time on your side, because that's the way it would be for a normal fertile couple at your age. Try not to hold it against her, and be gentle in educating her - and hopefully she'll soon be back to her wonderful understanding self.Hope Springshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16380949423334441581noreply@blogger.com